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May 19, 2009

Life Comes at You Fast

Image: Flickr/Luftphilia

Image: Flickr/Luftphilia

Anyone remember those Nationwide commercials where life passes in the blink of an eye? If not, here’s a quick reminder…

I thought of this commercial this past Sunday when attending the Milton HS baccalaureate service. Hal was the guest speaker and I, like the supportive wife that I am, went along. It was a beautiful service and I enjoyed a little people watching as an anonymous guest. I watched the graduates hugging each other and grinning from ear to ear. I watched proud mamas and papas snapping pictures and breathing sighs of relief. And I watched my life flash before my eyes.

As Hal stood up in front of those graduates, he spoke about our high school days. And I had a minor panic attack. You see, reader, I remember sitting in those robes. I remember hugging my friends and I remember my parents snapping those photos. Where did the last (cough, cough, ahem) years go? But that’s not what caused my shallow breathing and sudden dizzy spell. What brought that on was the sobering realization that my Hannah will be among this enrobed multitude before I know it.

Ok, sure, in six years, but still… if the last (cough, cough, ahem) years went by so fast, won’t the next six?

The answer is yes. Life doesn’t slow down. In fact, it seems to speed up the older I get. And ultimately, I don’t mind. I’m not one of those parents who wants to freeze their child and protect them from growing up. But it did make me reflect just a little how precious the time I do have with my kids is.

I somehow doubt that all of those arguments about dirty clothes and rolling eyes will matter much in May of 2015. I doubt that I’ll be grateful for all of those times that instead of just enjoying her company over a magazine, I cleaned out my refrigerator. It may sound trite, but life really does come at you fast.

And while I know it’s not realistic to be fully present ALL the time with your kids – heck, that is another problem all of its own – I think that I can do a little better. I can enjoy her a little more and fuss at her a little less… even when she makes it hard to do… especially when she makes that hard to do. Maybe that way, when she walks down that corridor as a high school grad, we’ll both be better prepared for life apart.

4 thoughts on “Life Comes at You Fast

  1. Just had the high privilege on May 23rd of seeing our oldest daughter graduate college. Home for the summer, she will be leaving her birthstate of Georgia on the East coast, for her Masters in the Fall in California. I believe Rev. Runkel would refer to this as “time to grow again”!!!

  2. I have a pre-teen who will be in the Class of 2015 also and I see the next 6 years FLYING by at lightning speed … probably won’t FEEL like it AT the time while we’re dealing with the day-to-day drama and eye rolling and trying to “chill” all the way through out.

    Thanks for all your wisdom and insight!

  3. OK your making me cry now. Granted I have 15 years before that happens, it does go so fast. Our children are precious, we have a short time with them, more reason to enjoy as many moments as possible.

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