“Intimacy cannot happen between non-equals.”
(Dr. David Schnarch)

Are you stuck…wondering why your spouse won’t change? Consider this:

They’re probably wondering the same thing about you.

Also, just because you may be better AT something than your spouse (finances, parenting, apologizing) doesn’t mean you’re better THAN your spouse.

The second you judge yourself to be the better person, you eliminate the possibility of creating the marriage you crave.

Peace begins with pause,