Obedience is Overrated

There is a natural tendency for kids to “cut their teeth” on us by trying out harsh emotions and pushing against us on seemingly small matters. This shouldn’t surprise us; in fact, we should…

Bitter & sweet

The same week we first published ScreamFree Parenting, my wife Jenny got diagnosed with cancer.

The same month our work with Army families began to expand…

Apologies can stink

Last week, during a White House press conference, two men got into a heated argument in front of, well, everybody. Afterwards, in an effort to…

Reading is optional

School is beckoning our kids out of summer. That usually means those books we bought…

If you must answer a fool, do it…

Your spouse accuses you (falsely) of doing something thoughtless, without…

Let’s be frank

Speaking with candor about your pain, fears, and hopes is the quickest way to invite…

TBT: Whatever it Takes

Here at ScreamFree we advocate one thing above all else: Just stay calm, no matter what. By doing that…

The Best Human Skill

We humans are driven by our emotions far more than our thoughts. Learning to differentiate between…

Is courtesy on death row?

I went to a baseball game recently, and my seat was on the aisle. While this was convenient when I wanted food or drink, it also meant I was the de facto doorkeeper to…

It’s Your Time

Well, my son is heading towards his senior year in high school, so it’s time to write him a book as well. I’m torn between two titles, but…