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I believed them
Each of my kids has lied to me, face to face. This is an entirely normal part of growing up. Sometimes…
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A Life of Ease is Soon Dis-eased
Wishing to make our lives as easy as possible is certainly tempting. For those of us with kids, it can be even more tempting to…
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Choose to Let Them Choose
More than anything, our ability to choose is what makes us human. It is also the primary determinant of our…
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Doing the Undone
All of us are surrounded by unfinished projects…at work, in our homes, in our relationships. These undone actions can be haunting, constant reminders of…
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Suspenders
You are on the hardest journey of life, this climb towards the best you possible. This is the journey of maturity, where you…
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Real Mature
“Maturity is both a static and a dynamic concept.” (Leo Buscaglia) OK, let’s finish our discussion on maturity (for now). It’s generally understood that mature people have a strong sense of who they are, separate and apart from others. They understand their need for intimate relationships, but they are not dependent upon others to […]
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TBT: Be Bamboozled
The first step of lasting growth is to change your thinking about growth itself. Making small changes and being gentle with yourself along the way…
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Less of the Same
One of the worst human habits is doubling down on our habits. When things get tight, when anxieties start to rise, we…
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Letting go of the familiar
When it comes to making real and lasting change, we usually know what we need to do…