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  • I believed them

    Each of my kids has lied to me, face to face. This is an entirely normal part of growing up. Sometimes…

  • The hardest part about personal growth

    The hardest part about growing is keeping…

  • A Life of Ease is Soon Dis-eased

    Wishing to make our lives as easy as possible is certainly tempting. For those of us with kids, it can be even more tempting to…

  • Choose to Let Them Choose

    More than anything, our ability to choose is what makes us human. It is also the primary determinant of our…

  • Doing the Undone

    All of us are surrounded by unfinished projects…at work, in our homes, in our relationships. These undone actions can be haunting, constant reminders of…

  • Suspenders

    You are on the hardest journey of life, this climb towards the best you possible. This is the journey of maturity, where you…

  • Real Mature

    “Maturity is both a static and a dynamic concept.” (Leo Buscaglia)   OK, let’s finish our discussion on maturity (for now). It’s generally understood that mature people have a strong sense of who they are, separate and apart from others. They understand their need for intimate relationships, but they are not dependent upon others to […]

  • TBT: Be Bamboozled

    The first step of lasting growth is to change your thinking about growth itself. Making small changes and being gentle with yourself along the way…

  • Less of the Same

    One of the worst human habits is doubling down on our habits. When things get tight, when anxieties start to rise, we…

  • Letting go of the familiar

    When it comes to making real and lasting change, we usually know what we need to do…