“The only true thing is what’s in front of you right now.” (Ramona Ausubel)

If I had only one piece of advice for every husband this morning, it would be this:

When your wife approaches you tonight, about anything at all, calmly put down the phone, the iPad, and the remote. Then move yourself into a position of connection, and be painstakingly present.

Communicate, with your singular focus on her eyes, that while you initially got engaged to be married…

you actually got married to be engaged.