“Men acquire a particular quality by constantly acting a particular way. You become brave by performing brave actions.” (Aristotle)
We have the tendency to believe that, in order to behave a certain way, we must competent for the task at hand. The reality is facing the task without being certain of the outcome is what creates the strength required to complete the task at hand.
So, you want to be more courageous? You want to be calm and strong?
Ask some of the brave men and women who have served our nation, and they’ll tell you: Stop waiting for someone to make those wishes come true. Act the way you want to be, and you’ll find yourself being the way you want.