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  • When Not to Laugh

    Children, like adults, long to be taken seriously. Hopes, dreams, fears, and hurts are every bit as real to kids as they are to us. Whether it’s a toddler who is afraid of the dark or a teen who has just had her heart broken, we can…

  • The Myth of the Slippery Slope

    We all do a lot of arguing these days. New media platforms have profited on polarization, and our multimedia megaphones have turned us all into pundits. It’s gotten ridiculous. What’s especially…

  • Boys Don’t Cry Out

    Every time there’s a new, horrific school shooting, I’m reminded of my own childhood…

  • Wait, what?

    Learning to truly engage in conversation is among life’s greatest blessings, and one…

  • It’s really hard to listen…

    Most famous writers have this in common: they are insatiably curious about the world around them and what makes people tick. When asked about their craft and how they find the amazing stories…

  • Training vs. Trying

    Keeping your cool when you want to flip out is one of the best things you can do for everyone. It’s also one of the hardest. Remaining calm…

  • Take Back Your Remote Control

    Interesting idea: we control our thoughts; our thoughts don’t control us. So many of our troubles come about…

  • The Wonder Years

    Our son Brandon is graduating high school in a few months, and Jenny and I have been doing a little reminiscing, selecting photos for his high school and church celebrations. It’s brought laughter, more than a few tears, and…

  • Where it All Begins…

    I can’t really add much…

  • Ducking Conflict

    Humans are emotional beings, and our emotions can be terrific assets in the right context. Remaining calm in the midst of conflict, therefore, can be unnerving…