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TBT: Be Bamboozled
The first step of lasting growth is to change your thinking about growth itself. Making small changes and being gentle with yourself along the way…
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You’re Not a Lizard
There’s something about the power of quietness that modern society doesn’t know how to cultivate. We get anxious and feel like…
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When You Win, You Lose
A few years into our marriage, in the midst of a lovely fight, Jenny changed her tone and simply announced: “Okay, you’re right…you win.”
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Bitter & sweet
The same week we first published ScreamFree Parenting, my wife Jenny got diagnosed with cancer.
The same month our work with Army families began to expand…
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It was 24 years ago today…
Please forgive my self-indulgence in today’s Pause. The actual date of our anniversary…
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Reading is optional
School is beckoning our kids out of summer. That usually means those books we bought…
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If you must answer a fool, do it…
Your spouse accuses you (falsely) of doing something thoughtless, without…
