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  • A Technology High

    There was a commercial out last year promoting the Virtual Reality headgear of the new Samsung phone. The ad shows multiple people of all ages and colors, experiencing…

  • Separate but Intimate

    This past weekend Jenny and I shared a hotel room, but…

  • Think or Sink

    We all know the story of Thomas Edison’s perseverance in creating the lightbulb. He never failed, he just discovered 10,000 ways to not make…

  • Vengeance is Mined

    Whenever we feel rage, or righteous indignation, or a desire for revenge, it can seem as if we can’t help it. The emotions and desires are so…

  • You are/are not an animal

    Learning to represent yourself well, especially in difficult conversations, is among…

  • Liking Ourselves to Death

    The past two days we’ve been looking at the power of the Internet and social media to ensnare our brains and polarize us against one another. Truth be told, this is all coming from…

  • Common Ground?

    Yesterday, I did another “Real Talk” segment on NBC’s “Atlanta & Co.” The conversation was about common interests between spouses. Should a woman learn to be…

  • Are You and Your Spouse on the Same Page?

    When it comes to such critical areas as parenting, finances, or how to deal with extended families, we are all tempted to believe a very damaging lie: If we are to be truly “one,” then we cannot be divided by disagreement. This is…

  • Doing is Knowing

    One of the biggest lies in our world is the lie of education. You know, the one that says, “If we just knew better, we’d do better.”

  • “Honey, we need to talk”

    These are dreaded words. No spouse or significant other wants to hear them.