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  • Smile Your Way to Happiness

    In his brilliant book Resilience, former Navy SEAL (and now Governor or Missouri) Eric Greitens delivers some amazing wisdom to a fellow SEAL struggling…

  • Don’t Advertise Your Suffering

    There are two things people do that almost universally put people off, and I’m afraid I am guilty of both: Bragging too much about…

  • The 3rd Best Way to Suffer Well

    This week we’ve talked about Acknowledging our suffering, and even learning to Appreciate it. Today may be the most difficult…

  • Creativity…through suffering?

    Yesterday we learned to acknowledge our suffering. Today we learn to…

  • How to Suffer Well

    While it’s not a cheery topic to discuss, suffering is universal. Whether it’s chronic pain, or grieving…

  • The Easiest Way to Earn Respect

    I hear parents complain about their “disrespectful” kids all the time.   Here’s my question in reply: When you lose your cool with them and say and do things you regret, how quickly do you apologize?   Some folks actually tell me they don’t apologize, ‘cos that would communicate “weakness.”   Others tell me they’ll […]

  • TBT: Be Bamboozled

    The first step of lasting growth is to change your thinking about growth itself. Making small changes and being gentle with yourself along the way…

  • Life goes on.

    It got dark a couple days ago in parts of the US. In Nashville, my daughter saw…

  • Peace for your past?

    Don’t forget to forgive.

  • You’re Not a Lizard

    There’s something about the power of quietness that modern society doesn’t know how to cultivate. We get anxious and feel like…