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How to Change Other People
Some of us think clearly enforced rules, from a clearly established hierarchy, are the first and best way to improve other people’s behavior and chances of success.
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Playing the Hand You’re Dealt
Three weeks ago I woke up with a new hip. This was my 4th major orthopedic surgery in the last 15 years (two on my back, one to fix a torn ACL, and now a total hip replacement). I’m only 45, so what gives?
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Plant a Tree
On those days (and we all have them) when you don’t know if you have the energy to be ScreamFree, remember this quote.
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Please Stop Pleasing
Some character struggles are easier to admit than others. Stating how much you’re a workaholic, for instance, is an easy “flaw” to admit in a job interview.
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Who’s Your Daddy?
I seem to have a love/hate relationship with money. I love it so much I chase after it with gusto, and cherish it whenever it comes my way.
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The First Rule
People ask me this all the time: “Okay, Hal, I get that I need to pause and stay calm; how do I do that?”
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Grief Needs Grace
One of the most difficult relationship challenges any of us can face is grieving a loss. Whether it’s losing a parent, or a business dream, or God forbid a child, grief is a most unwelcome guest in our lives.
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Intimacy & Integrity
The biggest mistake we make in relationships is seeking from others what we can only give to ourselves.
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Creating the Relationships You Crave
Let’s face it; when it comes to relationships, we’ve all received some bad training over the years. Divorce. Mean girls. Crazy exes. Narcissistic parents.
